Make the enabled property configurable

This allows using select statements with it.

Ignore-AOSP-First: This needs to be in a topic with changes in interal-only repositories, I'll cherrypick to aosp after.
Bug: 323382414
Test: m nothing --no-skip-soong-tests
Change-Id: I6f3efaaa3d82505e38a91ee4ba0e18e404360191

android/base_module_context.go

@@ -325,7 +325,7 @@ func (b *baseModuleContext) validateAndroidModule(module blueprint.Module, tag b
 		return nil
 	}
 
-	if !aModule.Enabled() {
+	if !aModule.Enabled(b) {
 		if t, ok := tag.(AllowDisabledModuleDependency); !ok || !t.AllowDisabledModuleDependency(aModule) {
 			if b.Config().AllowMissingDependencies() {
 				b.AddMissingDependencies([]string{b.OtherModuleName(aModule)})